\u00d6z h\u0259yatlar\u0131na intihar vasit\u0259sil\u0259 son qoyma\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259n insanlar haqq\u0131nda e\u015fid\u0259nd\u0259 az qals\u0131n ki, \u00fcr\u0259yim yerind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xs\u0131n. \u018fg\u0259r s\u0259n d\u0259 indi bel\u0259 fikird\u0259s\u0259ns\u0259, bu bir \u00e7ox emosiyalardan v\u0259 \u00fcmidsizlikd\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. S\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ox d\u0259rin bir quyuda hiss ed\u0259 v\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259rinin yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011fa do\u011fru getdiyini g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n bir \u00fcmid i\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funa \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n. He\u00e7 kim s\u0259nin haradan g\u0259ldiyini g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r. H\u0259yat sad\u0259c\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa d\u0259ym\u0259z, el\u0259 deyilmi?<\/p>\n
Bir \u00e7oxlar\u0131 z\u0259ifl\u0259mi\u015f emosiyalar\u0131 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif vaxtlarda t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259d\u0259n ke\u00e7iribl\u0259r. M\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm emosiyalar quyusunda olanda, a\u011fl\u0131ma bel\u0259 bir sual g\u0259ldi, \u201cBu m\u0259ni yaradan Allah\u0131n irad\u0259si ola bil\u0259rmi?\u201d \u201cAllah m\u0259n\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu q\u0259d\u0259r ki\u00e7ikdirmi?\u201d \u201cM\u0259nim probleml\u0259rim Onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7oxmu b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr?\u201d<\/p>\n
Bunu s\u0259n\u0259 dem\u0259kd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u00e7ox xo\u015fb\u0259xt hiss edir\u0259m ki, \u0259g\u0259r s\u0259n indi bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259qiq\u0259lik Allaha h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n s\u0259nin Allah\u0131n olma\u011fa imkan vers\u0259n, O h\u0259qiq\u0259td\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r b\u00f6y\u00fck oldu\u011funu s\u0259n\u0259 s\u00fcbut ed\u0259r! \u201c\u00c7\u00fcnki Allah\u0131n yan\u0131nda qeyri-m\u00fcmk\u00fcn bir \u015fey yoxdur\u201d (Luka 1:37). G\u00fcman ki, ke\u00e7mi\u015fin a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131 yaralar\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc inkar v\u0259 t\u0259rk olunma hissl\u0259ri s\u0259n\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u0259lib. Bu is\u0259 s\u0259ni \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 ac\u0131maq, q\u0259z\u0259b, kin, intiqam fikirl\u0259rin\u0259 v\u0259 qeyri-sa\u011flam qorxulara apara bil\u0259r. Bu problem b\u0259z\u0259n sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox vacib olan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 ba\u015f verir. Bu is\u0259 yaln\u0131z he\u00e7 vaxt incitm\u0259k niyy\u0259tind\u0259 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 p\u0259ri\u015fan ed\u0259r v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131 boyu onlara emosianal a\u011fr\u0131 ver\u0259r.<\/p>\n
N\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn intihar etm\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n? Dostum, h\u0259yat\u0131nda n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tin bir \u015feyin ba\u015f verm\u0259sind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, s\u0259ni bu \u00fcmidsizlik tunelind\u0259 idar\u0259 edib, \u00d6z nuru il\u0259 i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131rmas\u0131na imkan verm\u0259yini ist\u0259y\u0259n sev\u0259n Allah var. O s\u0259nin \u00fcmidindir. Onun ad\u0131 \u0130sad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
H\u0259min \u0130sa, Allah\u0131n g\u00fcnahs\u0131z O\u011flu bu inkar olunmu\u015f v\u0259 al\u00e7ald\u0131lm\u0131\u015f v\u0259ziyy\u0259tind\u0259 s\u0259ninl\u0259 olacaqd\u0131r. Ye\u015faya pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r Onun haqq\u0131nda yaz\u0131b, \u201cO, R\u0259bbin \u00f6n\u00fcnd\u0259 bir fidan kimi, quru torpaqda bit\u0259n k\u00f6k kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fc. Baxanda Onun n\u0259 g\u00f6rk\u0259mi, n\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259lliyi var idi, g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc ox\u015fayan zahiri simas\u0131 da yox idi. Adamlar Ona h\u0259qar\u0259tl\u0259 bax\u0131b r\u0259dd etdil\u0259r. O d\u0259rdli, x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u0259n insan idi, adamlar ondan \u00fcz d\u00f6nd\u0259rdi, xor baxd\u0131lar. Biz Ona qiym\u0259t verm\u0259dik. \u018fslind\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rimizi O \u00e7\u0259kdi, d\u0259rdl\u0259rimizi \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc. Biz is\u0259 Onun Allah t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n c\u0259zaland\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, vurulub iztirab \u00e7\u0259kdiyini z\u0259nn etdik. Bizim asiliyimiz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 Onun b\u0259d\u0259ni de\u015fildi, \u015f\u0259r \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rimiz namin\u0259 \u0259zildi, bizim \u0259min-amanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn O c\u0259za ald\u0131, Onun yaralar\u0131 il\u0259 biz \u015f\u0259fa tapd\u0131q. Ham\u0131m\u0131z qoyun kimi yolu azm\u0131\u015fd\u0131q, h\u0259r birimiz \u00f6z yolumuzla gedirdik. R\u0259bb ham\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u015f\u0259r \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rinin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc Onun \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 qoydu\u201d (Ye\u015faya 53:2-6).<\/p>\n
Dostum, \u0130sa M\u0259sih s\u0259nin b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 tab g\u0259tirdi. Bil ki, s\u0259nin g\u00fcnah\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r b\u00f6y\u00fck olmas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, \u0259g\u0259r h\u0259limlikl\u0259 etiraf ets\u0259n, O s\u0259ni ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayacaq (\u00f6z g\u00fcnahlar\u0131ndan Allaha d\u00f6n). \u201cDar g\u00fcnd\u0259 M\u0259ni \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r, M\u0259n s\u0259ni xilas ed\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m, S\u0259n d\u0259 M\u0259ni \u015f\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ndir\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n\u201d (Z\u0259bur 50:15). S\u0259nin etdiyin \u015feyl\u0259r o q\u0259d\u0259r pis deyil ki, \u0130sa onlar\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flaya bilm\u0259sin. Onun se\u00e7diyi b\u0259zi xidm\u0259t\u00e7il\u0259r d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli g\u00fcnahlar etmi\u015fdil\u0259r, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, qatillik (Musa), zinakarl\u0131q (Davud pad\u015fah), fiziki v\u0259 emosional t\u0259hqir (h\u0259vari Pavel). Lakin onlar R\u0259bd\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanma v\u0259 bol h\u0259yat tapd\u0131lar. \u201cM\u0259nim b\u00fct\u00fcn t\u0259qsirl\u0259rimi yu, g\u00fcnah\u0131mdan t\u0259mizl\u0259\u201d (Z\u0259bur 51:2). \u201cBuna g\u00f6r\u0259 kim M\u0259sihd\u0259dirs\u0259, yeni m\u0259xluqdur; k\u00f6hn\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259r ke\u00e7di, indi h\u0259r \u015fey yeni oldu\u201d (2Korinflil\u0259r\u0259 5:17).<\/p>\n
N\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn intihar etm\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n? Dostum, Allah s\u0259nd\u0259ki \u201cm\u0259hv olmu\u015f\u201d \u015feyi b\u0259rpa etm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131r… intihar vasit\u0259sil\u0259 son qoymaq ist\u0259diyin h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 da. Ye\u015faya pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r yaz\u0131b, \u201cXudav\u0259nd R\u0259bbin Ruhu \u00fcz\u0259rimd\u0259dir, \u00e7\u00fcnki f\u0259qirl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcjd\u0259ni bildirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn O m\u0259ni m\u0259sh etdi. Q\u0259lbl\u0259ri s\u0131n\u0131q olanlar\u0131n yaralar\u0131n\u0131 sar\u0131maq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, \u0259sirl\u0259r\u0259 azadl\u0131q, dustaqlara h\u00fcrriyy\u0259t elan etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, R\u0259bbin l\u00fctf ilini, Allah\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n qisas g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc b\u0259yan etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, yasl\u0131lar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131na t\u0259s\u0259lli verm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, Sionda yas tutanlar\u0131 t\u0259min etm\u0259k, k\u00fcl yerin\u0259 \u00e7\u0259l\u0259ng, yas yerin\u0259 sevinc g\u0259tir\u0259n m\u0259sh ya\u011f\u0131, k\u0259d\u0259rli ruh \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 h\u0259md libas\u0131n\u0131 b\u0259x\u015f etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn R\u0259bb m\u0259ni g\u00f6nd\u0259rdi. Onlara R\u0259bbin \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259tini a\u015fkar etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn R\u0259bbin \u0259kdiyi salehlik pal\u0131d a\u011faclar\u0131 deyil\u0259c\u0259k\u201d (Ye\u015faya 61:1-3).<\/p>\n
\u0130san\u0131n yan\u0131na g\u0259l, imkan ver ki, O s\u0259nin sevincini v\u0259 vacibliyini b\u0259rpa etsin v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131nda yeni i\u015f\u0259 ba\u015flamas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn Ona etibar et. \u201cXilas\u0131n\u0131n sevincini m\u0259n\u0259 qaytar, ita\u0259tkarl\u0131q ruhu verib m\u0259n\u0259 dayaq ol. Ey Xudav\u0259nd, S\u0259n dilimi a\u00e7, a\u011fz\u0131mla S\u0259n\u0259 olan h\u0259mdl\u0259rimi b\u0259yan edim. S\u0259n qurbanlardan z\u00f6vq almazsan, yoxsa k\u0259s\u0259rdim. Yand\u0131rma qurbanlar\u0131ndan raz\u0131 qalmazsan, Allaha m\u0259qbul olan qurban etiraf ruhudur, S\u0259n s\u0131nan v\u0259 pe\u015fman olan \u00fcr\u0259y\u0259 xor baxmazsan\u201d (Z\u0259bur 51:12, 15-17).<\/p>\n
R\u0259bbi \u00f6z Xilaskar\u0131n v\u0259 \u00c7oban\u0131n kimi q\u0259bul ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n? O s\u0259nin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 v\u0259 add\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259r g\u00fcn \u00f6z K\u0259lam\u0131, M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitabla y\u00f6nl\u0259ndir\u0259c\u0259k. \u201cS\u0259n\u0259 t\u0259lim ver\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m, ged\u0259c\u0259yin yolu \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m. N\u0259sih\u0259t ver\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m, g\u00f6z\u00fcm s\u0259nin \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 olacaq\u201d (Z\u0259bur 32:8). \u201cO, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z d\u00f6vr\u00fcn t\u0259m\u0259lidir, qurtulu\u015fun, hikm\u0259tin, biliyin m\u0259nb\u0259yidir, R\u0259bb qorxusu s\u0259nin x\u0259zin\u0259ndir\u201d (Ye\u015faya 33:6). M\u0259sihd\u0259, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparacaqsan, lakin art\u0131q s\u0259nd\u0259 \u00dcM\u0130D olacaq. \u201cAmma qarda\u015fdan daha yax\u0131n dost da var\u201d (S\u00fcleyman\u0131n M\u0259s\u0259ll\u0259ri 18:24). Qoy se\u00e7im zaman\u0131 R\u0259bb \u0130sa s\u0259n\u0259 l\u00fctf versin.<\/p>\n
\u018fg\u0259r M\u0259sih\u0259 \u00f6z Xilaskar\u0131n kimi inanmaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259 Allaha bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri de. \u201cAllah\u0131m, h\u0259yat\u0131mda s\u0259n\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131m var. Xahi\u015f edir\u0259m ki, etdiyim h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259ni ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayasan. M\u0259n \u0130sa M\u0259sih\u0259 etibar edir\u0259m v\u0259 inan\u0131ram ki, O m\u0259nim Xilaskar\u0131md\u0131r. Xahi\u015f edir\u0259m ki, m\u0259ni yu, \u015f\u0259fa ver v\u0259 sevincimi b\u0259rpa et. M\u0259n\u0259 olan m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tin\u0259 v\u0259 m\u0259nd\u0259n \u00f6tr\u00fc \u00f6ld\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u00e7ox sa\u011f ol.\u201d<\/p>","protected":false},"template":"","tags":[],"class_list":["post-4473","faqs","type-faqs","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/faqs\/4473","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/faqs"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/faqs"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/faqs\/4473\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4475,"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/faqs\/4473\/revisions\/4475"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4473"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4473"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}