H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l, insanlar\u0131n bo\u015fanma m\u00f6vzusunda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri n\u0259 olursa-olsun M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitabdan M\u0259laki 2:16-dak\u0131 s\u00f6zl\u0259ri xat\u0131rlamaq vacibdir, \u201cM\u0259n nigah\u0131n\u0131 pozan adama nifr\u0259t edir\u0259m, Ordular R\u0259bbi deyir.\u201d M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitaba \u0259sas\u0259n, Allah\u0131n plan\u0131 nigah\u0131n \u00f6m\u00fcrboyu s\u00fcr\u0259n \u0259hd olmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u201cBel\u0259 ki, onlar art\u0131q iki deyil, bir b\u0259d\u0259ndirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, Allah\u0131n birl\u0259\u015fdirdiyini insan ay\u0131rmamal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d (Matta 19:6). Allah bilirdi ki, \u0259g\u0259r iki g\u00fcnahl\u0131 insan nigah qurursa, onlar aras\u0131nda bo\u015fanma da ola bil\u0259r. O, \u018fhdi-\u018ftiqd\u0259 bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015flar\u0131n, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qanunlar qoymu\u015fdu (Qanunun T\u0259krar\u0131 24:1-4). \u0130sa qeyd etmi\u015fdi ki, bu Allah\u0131n arzusu deyildi, sad\u0259c\u0259 insanlar\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259rinin hissizliyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 onlara bu qanunu vermi\u015fdi (Matta 19:8).<\/p>\n
M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitab\u0131n izn verdiyi bo\u015fanmaq v\u0259 yenid\u0259n ail\u0259 qurmaq haqq\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259r \u0259sas\u0259n \u0130san\u0131n Matta 5:32 v\u0259 19:9-da dediyi s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 idi. \u201cCinsi \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131qdan ba\u015fqa\u201d ifad\u0259si Allah\u0131n K\u0259lamda bo\u015fanma\u011fa v\u0259 yenid\u0259n ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa icaz\u0259 verdiyi yegan\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b idi. Bir \u00e7ox \u015f\u0259rh\u00e7il\u0259r bunu \u201cni\u015fanl\u0131\u201d vaxt\u0131na da aid edir. \u00c7\u00fcnki Y\u0259hudi ad\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n \u201cni\u015fanl\u0131\u201d olanda art\u0131q onlar evli hesab olunurdular. Bu \u201cni\u015fanl\u0131\u201d vaxt\u0131nda edil\u0259n zina bo\u015fanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeqan\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b idi.<\/p>\n
Halbuki, \u201ccinsi \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc Yunan dilind\u0259n t\u0259rc\u00fcm\u0259d\u0259 \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n h\u0259r bir formas\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tuta bil\u0259r. Bu x\u0259yan\u0259t, fahi\u015f\u0259lik, zina v\u0259 s. ola bil\u0259r. \u00c7ox g\u00fcman ki, \u0130sa cinsi \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q edildiyi halda bo\u015fanman\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funu deyib. Seksual m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r \u0259r-arvad aras\u0131ndak\u0131 el\u0259 bir \u0259laq\u0259dir ki, onlar \u201cikisi bir b\u0259d\u0259n olurlar\u201d (Yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f 2:24; Matta 19:5; Efeslil\u0259r\u0259 5:31). Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bu \u0259laq\u0259nin nigahdan k\u0259nar biri il\u0259 pozulmas\u0131 bo\u015fanma\u011fa icaz\u0259 ver\u0259n s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259rdi. \u018fg\u0259r bel\u0259dirs\u0259, onda \u0130sa bu f\u0259sild\u0259 yenid\u0259n ail\u0259 qurma\u011f\u0131 da n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tuturdu. \u201cBa\u015fqas\u0131 il\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259rs\u0259\u201d (Matta 19:9) ifad\u0259si bo\u015fanma\u011fa v\u0259 yenid\u0259n ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa icaz\u0259 verdiyini g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bunu qeyd etm\u0259k vacibdir ki, yaln\u0131z t\u0259qsirsiz t\u0259r\u0259f yenid\u0259n ail\u0259 qura bil\u0259r. M\u0259tnd\u0259 bu bar\u0259d\u0259 yaz\u0131lmasa da, yenid\u0259n ail\u0259 qura bilm\u0259 imkan\u0131 zina etmi\u015f \u015f\u0259xs \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yox, t\u0259qsirsiz t\u0259r\u0259f \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn Allah\u0131n l\u00fctf\u00fcd\u00fcr. El\u0259 hadis\u0259l\u0259r ola bil\u0259r ki, \u201cg\u00fcnahl\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u201d\u0259 d\u0259 yenid\u0259n ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa icaz\u0259 veril\u0259 bil\u0259r – lakin m\u0259tnd\u0259 bel\u0259 bir anlay\u0131\u015f yoxdur.<\/p>\n
B\u0259zil\u0259ri 1Korinflil\u0259r\u0259 7:15-d\u0259 qeyd olunan imans\u0131z\u0131n imanl\u0131dan bo\u015fanmas\u0131 hadis\u0259sin\u0259 icaz\u0259 verm\u0259sini dig\u0259r bir \u201cistisna\u201d kimi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Halbuki, m\u0259tnd\u0259 bo\u015fan\u0131b yenid\u0259n ail\u0259 qurmaq yox, ayr\u0131lmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n imanl\u0131 il\u0259 imans\u0131z\u0131n aras\u0131nda \u00f6z evlilikl\u0259rini davam etdirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir. B\u0259zil\u0259ri pis m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri (\u0259r-arvad v\u0259 ya u\u015faq) bo\u015fanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259sasl\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259b saysa da, bu c\u00fcr \u015feyl\u0259r bar\u0259d\u0259 M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitabda sadalanmay\u0131b.<\/p>\n
B\u0259z\u0259n istisnalar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 ged\u0259n m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u201ccinsi \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u201d hans\u0131 formas\u0131 olursa-olsun, bunun bo\u015fanma t\u0259l\u0259bi deyil, bo\u015fanmaya icaz\u0259 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259nl\u0259r olur. H\u0259tta zina edil\u0259nd\u0259 bel\u0259, c\u00fctl\u00fck Allah\u0131n l\u00fctf\u00fc il\u0259 bir-birini ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 nigah\u0131 b\u0259rpa etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Allah bizi o q\u0259d\u0259r ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131b ki. \u015e\u00fcbh\u0259siz ki, biz d\u0259 Onun n\u00fcmun\u0259sini izl\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 h\u0259tta x\u0259yan\u0259ti d\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flaya bil\u0259rik (Efeslil\u0259r\u0259 4:32). Baxmayaraq ki, bir \u00e7ox hadis\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259r-arvad t\u00f6vb\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259mir v\u0259 zinan\u0131 davam etdirir. \u00c7ox g\u00fcman ki, el\u0259 Matta 19:9 buna m\u00fcraci\u0259t edir. Bir \u00e7oxlar\u0131 bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7ox y\u00fcng\u00fcl bax\u0131r, halbuki Allah\u0131n ist\u0259yi onlar\u0131n subay qalmas\u0131 da ola bil\u0259r. Allah b\u0259z\u0259n insan\u0131 fikirl\u0259rinin yay\u0131nmamas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn subay olma\u011fa \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r (1Korinflil\u0259r\u0259 7:32-35). Bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra ail\u0259 qurmaq b\u0259zi v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 se\u00e7im ola bil\u0259r, lakin bu o dem\u0259k deyil ki, o yeqan\u0259 se\u00e7imdir.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ox k\u0259d\u0259rlidir ki, m\u0259sih\u00e7il\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 imans\u0131z d\u00fcnyada oldu\u011fu q\u0259d\u0259r y\u00fcks\u0259kdir. M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitab bunu \u00e7ox ayd\u0131n \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 deyir ki, Allah bo\u015fanmaya nifr\u0259t edir (M\u0259laki 2:16), bu bar\u0131\u015f\u0131q v\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama imanl\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131na i\u015far\u0259 ola bil\u0259r (Luka 11:4; Efeslil\u0259r\u0259 4:32). Baxmayaraq ki, Allah, h\u0259tta \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n ba\u015f ver\u0259c\u0259yini bilirdi. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f v\u0259 ya yenid\u0259n ail\u0259 qurmu\u015f m\u0259sih\u00e7il\u0259r el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r ki, Allah onlar\u0131 ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan daha az sevir. B\u0259z\u0259n Allah m\u0259sih\u00e7il\u0259rin g\u00fcnahl\u0131 ita\u0259tsizliyind\u0259n d\u0259 \u00d6z i\u015fini tamamlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn istifad\u0259 edir.<\/p>","protected":false},"template":"","tags":[],"class_list":["post-4500","faqs","type-faqs","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/faqs\/4500","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/faqs"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/faqs"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/faqs\/4500\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4501,"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/faqs\/4500\/revisions\/4501"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4500"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xilasinyolu.online\/ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4500"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}